alright jitspoe, heres what ive got for you.
i had the same frustration, of going from an os whom's territory i felt i could walk on the water of, to this new and seemingly better thing (more convinced everyday this is the case) that i can just tread its water. seems most serious users bypassed the vista option all together, for known reasons, and left this new planet without due products to make it the way it could and should be. anyways things are definitely more tied down in 7 and it makes me think im on a mac half the time (but i kiss the carpet everytime i realize im not), but this program has helped me for the few hours ive had it.
http://www.vistastartmenu.com/index.htmlnot a full fix to the lack of customization that made pc's what they are, but a good start. seems to run lite'ish, but has a hell of a time creating the initial cache (i hope it's only initial). all in all a lot more flexibility and showing of what i'd like to see in a start menu, so im going with it till it does something to really piss me off. check it out.
ps - if you can figure out how to set the "menu delay" in this program, let me know. i havent gone into the reg yet, but playing with the programs options while writing this doesnt show anything. way too slow though, by far is gonna be my gripe with this program.