I got Artizen to mess with some HDR and it seems pretty good.
Overall though, although I can get some of my photos looking a bit better, i'm not all that impressed with HDR so far. Not beyond what I found I can accomplish with tweaking Highlight/Shadows in PS.
And if I really wanted to get fancy I can always do a chop on sections of my images and tweak the individual layers to even things out, or make areas stand out dramatically. But that takes a lot of time.
I'll try doing some exposure bracketing then HDR those and see what I come up with.
I don't want to create anything unrealistic looking. At least not at this early stage in my photography. And that's pretty much all I can get out of this "fake" HDR, using one image and creating variations by tweaking exposure in software.