Since you've only been here 20 minutes, I'll fill you in on some of our rules around here.
-Do not double post. On the upper right hand corner of everyone of your posts you'll find a "modify" link which will let you edit your text.
-Do not "necro" - Which is bringing up old posts and reviving them by posting.
-Do not post duplicate threads. Most questions can be answered by using the search feature at the top of the page. If you think you have a new idea or something to contribute, a quick search usually reveals you're not as creative as you thought. (i.e. your post about a friends list and in-game mic)
-Do not flame. You will be quickly banned if you start picking on other players.
-Only post when you have something useful to say. For example:
alright i read the first thing now ive gotta check out that second thing brb
You could have waited until you read both, and then asked a question if you still needed help, or maybe it would have worked and it didn't call for a post at all.
Cheers, and welcome to our humble community,
y00tz
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ok that didnt help me i dont hav a router
Alright, well tell me what you have on your screen now. If you followed that guide you should have a command prompt on your screen, and in a moment it will heartbeat and we'll see your ip at dplogin.com/serverlist.php