Generally all of your local servers should show up in the list but using your internal ip (something similar to 192.168.1. _______ etc. if you are using dynamic routing.
As to why it doesn't show up in the list at all...not sure I can help you there.
Tell ya what though, I am trying to get my dedicated server listed too so perhaps we can look for each other's server on the list.
Here is the title of mine:
m7's all dm, pgp
If anyone wants to see if it is showing up I would appreciate it.
I also have 4 or so bots running around in there in case anyone wants to just try out some target practice while waiting for humans to show up.
By the way, is there a way to check the servers outside of the game? Ie a site or something that lists them?
since you can only connect by the internal address it is hard to know if it is showing up. I have tried running it on the wife's laptop usring a separate wireless connection so far.